| Signs
of Drug Abuse
There are many signs of drug abuse. Although
many other factors can cause many signs and symptoms
of possible drug use, alert parents and educators
should be aware that these signs of drug use and
drug abuse are typical of substance abusers. Most
substance abusers exhibit several of the below
signs frequently. Parents and educators should
use common sense, their knowledge of the child,
and open communication to help determine if there
might be a drug problem that requries intervention.
Use these signs of possible drug abuse as a guide
to determine if investigation and action to prevent
drug abuse is warranted.
50 SIGNS OF DRUG ABUSE
Drop in school grades
Truancy, late for school
Missed work, late for work
Sudden change in friends
Sudden interest in drug culture (i.e. drug related
posters, music or magazines)
Evidence of drugs or drug paraphernalia (i.e.,
needles, pipes, rolling papers)
Lying
Stealing
Lack of interest in personal appearance
Having more or less money than usual
Marked change in sleeping patterns (getting more
or less sleep)
Rapid Loss of weight, unusual appetite
Loss of interest in family activities
Hostile or argumentative attitude
Refusal or hostility when asked to talk about
possible drug and alcohol use
Stolen or missing household property
Excessive, unusual mileage on vehicle
Memory loss
Fake ID (false driver's license indicating legal
drinking age)
Smell of alcohol on their breath
Neglected personal hygiene
Poor self image
Violent outbursts at home
Frequent use of Eye Wash
Slurred speech or very rapid speech patterns
Curfew violations
Running away
Unexplained Skin abrasions
Hostility towards family members
Chemical breath
Glassy eyes
Bloodshot eyes
Possessing unexplained valuables
Borrowing money frequently
Heightened secrecy about actions and possessions
Claims of privacy violations
Depression Symptoms
Withdrawal Symptoms
Apathetic Attitude
Reckless Behavior
No Concern about future
Disrespectful to parents and values
Sneaky behavior
Disregards Consequences
Loss of Interest in healthy activities
Verbally abusive to others
Manipulative behavior
Self-Centered, selfish behaviors
Unexplained medical symptoms
Trouble handling responsibilities
The Most Common Signs That Your Child
is Using Drugs
When children start using drugs they usually exhibit
many different signs which
parents need to watch out for. Unfortunately,
many parents often write-off these signs
as normal adolescent behavior and as a result
they don't realize that their child is into
drugs until it is too late. So how can you as
a parent know for sure whether or not your
child is in danger of falling into drugs? Simple
... by understanding that every child is in
danger of this. The parent who says "not
my kid" is the same parent who will miss
all
the signs that their child has started experimenting
with drugs. Often they will stay in
this state of denial till their son and daughter
is arrested or overdoses -- and by then it
is too late. So what should you as parents be
looking for as signs that your child is
experimenting with drugs or alcohol.
Dramatic changes in style of clothes,
hair, music
These outward signs of rebellion should be obvious
to a parent. Has your child
started listening to radically-different music
such as heavy metal or punk rock?
Is your kid coloring their hair some weird color
just to fit in? Is your child
dressing down to fit in with friends at school?
All of these are outward signs that
your child is succumbing to peer pressure and
all these should serve as
warning signs to you that your child is in danger
of falling into the same kind of
peer pressure when it comes to drugs.
Hanging out with a bad crowd
Your child might try and tell you that his/her
friends are cool kids. But you need to
take a close look at the kinds of kids your child
is hanging out with. Chances are
the way these friends behave is the way your child
behaves when you're not
around. Do some of your child's friends smoke
cigarettes? If so, odds are your
child is smoking too. Your child's friends are
like a mirror for your son or
daughter -- they look at themselves in that mirror
and try to conform to what they
see there. One of the best ways to get a good
idea of what your child is like is to
look at there closest friends.
Tardiness and/or truancies
You need to stay in touch with your child's school.
Never assume that his/her
school will be in touch with you if there is a
problem. If your child is getting into
drugs, odds are he/she will start ditching class
from time to time. Kids who do
this tend to take off during the middle of school
and get stoned somewhere near
the campus. Don't assume that there school will
let you know about this kind of
behavior. And you need to realize, kids are great
at covering this kind of behavior
up. Every kid knows how to forge their parent's
signature -- no joke. Call your
child's school from time to time and ask about
your child attendance record. You
need to take the initiative here!
Lack of motivation in school
Does you child simply seem not to care about how
he/she does in school? Does
your child seem to put very little effort into
homework assignments? Does your
child even come home from school to do his/her
homework or is he/she just
hanging out somewhere? Your child should show
a healthy interest in school. If
your child isn't, you need to be on the lookout
for drugs! One of the first thing that
goes when your child is experimenting with drugs
is will be your child's interest
in school.
Isolating from family
Does your child act distant? When you ask your
child what he/she has been up
to, does your child give some vague reply? Does
you child want to eat in their
room all the time instead of with the family?
Children are smart - they know that
the easiest lie to tell is the one they can avoid
having to tell. If you child doesn't
tell you what he/she has been up to, there's a
good chance your child is hiding
something.
Changes in attitude and personality
Does it seem like your child is suddenly a completely
different person with a new
personality which you don't like one bit? Has
your child suddenly developed a
tough guy/girl attitude? If your child is experimenting
with drugs, there's a good
chance you'll be seeing these kinds of attitude
changes. Often parents just see
this as normal teenage behavior and write it off.
Don't make this mistake . . .
otherwise you might overlook one of the most obvious
signs of your child's drug
problem.
Changes in sleep patterns
These kinds of changes should be fairly obvious.
Does your child stay up late (or
even all night) frequently, refusing to get up
in the morning at a decent time.
Does your child sleep way too much or way too
little. If your child isn't sleeping
much, there's a good chance he/she is using .
This is a frequent effect of this
kind of stimulant.
Excessive use of foul or obscene language
Has your child suddenly developed a filthy mouth?
This might indicate that your
child is giving into peer pressure from their
friends and should be a warning
sign to you. If your child is trying to fit in
with their friends by cussing, sooner or
later your child will probably look for other
ways to gain acceptance in his/her
peer group. One of these ways is often drugs.
Eating way too much or way too little
Here's another obvious sign of drug experimentation
that is often overlooked as
normal teenage behavior. Does your child come
home in the afternoon after
hanging out with friends and devour everything
in the refrigerator? If your child is
smoking pot with his/her friends, it wouldn't
be unusual for your child to eat kind
a bit more food than normal. Does your child skip
quite a few consecutive meals,
then speed use is a possibility.
Paranoia - everyone is out to get me
Does your son or daughter treat everybody as if
they were the enemy? Do they
tend to express the idea that everybody is out
to get them? Do they seem overly
paranoid to you? This is not normal teenage behavior;
you need to understand
that. This is one of the most common signs of
drug abuse. It's one of those signs
you don't have to look hard to see.
Dilated eyes - red eyes - glazed eyes
Do your son's or daughter's eyes look funny? Are
the pupils real large or real
small? Does your child wear sunglasses even at
night and try and say their just
trying to look cool? A person's eyes show the
effects of the drugs their on. If you
think your child is experimenting with drugs,
watch his or her eyes. Are they red
all the time? Glazed? If so, there's a real good
chance your child is using drugs.
Sudden bursts of anger
Has your child developed a violent side? Is he
or she prone to sudden,
uncontrollable fits of anger? This doesn't have
to mean physically violent (though
that is often the case) but can also be a teen
who is always yelling or threatening
people. Any of these things should be a warning
sign to you that your child could
be experimenting with drugs.
Lies!
Lying is a common way someone tries to hide drug
use. If your child is experimenting with drugs,
he/she will be telling lots of lies to
cover this up. Teens tend to be either very good
at covering things up. If you start
wondering whether or not your child is telling
you the truth there is a good
chance that your instincts are right and they
are being decietful. Try not to take it personally
and be persistent and learn what it is that they
are trying to cover up. Drugs are an all-to-real
possibility.
Dramatic mood swings
Does your child seems real happy one day, then
terribly depressed the next day?
Do your child's emotions go up and down constantly?
This is often confused with
'normal' teenage behavior, but it can also be
an obvious sign of drug abuse.
Don't simply write it off.
Excessive money spending or money disappearing
Drugs cost money. If your child keeps coming to
you needing money, or if money
keeps coming up missing from your purse or your
wallet, you need to have a
serious talk with your child. Especially if they
always seem to need 20 dollars or
50 dollars -- round amounts -- since that is often
the price drugs cost.
Talking too slow or too fast
If your child is smoking marijuana, he/she will
probably speak to you very slowly
when they talk to you (when they are using) since
pot tends to put a child in a
stupor. If your child is using stimulants such
as speed, they will speak very fast
and act very hyper. Look for changes in his/her
pattern of speech. If one day
he/she speaks normal and the next afternoon he/she
is running a million miles
per hour, drugs are a real possibility.
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